A Privnote alternative for chat
Privnote is great when you need to hand someone a password or an address once. It falls short the moment they reply. Frendko is the conversational version of the same idea: a private room for two, a visible countdown, and a verified purge of everything when the chat ends.
No account, no install. Create a room and send the 6-digit code.
Start a free 10-minute chatPrivnote vs Frendko
| Privnote-style note | Frendko | |
|---|---|---|
| Format | One-way note, burns on read | Two-person conversation |
| Reply | Not built for back-and-forth | Live chat, both sides |
| Lifetime | Until the note is opened | 10 minutes from the moment the guest joins |
| Extension | — | One free 10-minute extension, host approves |
| Access control | Anyone with the link | Two seats only; code dies once claimed |
| Deletion proof | Note simply disappears | Purge receipt: messages deleted, verified timestamp |
| Account | None | None |
| Price | Free | Free |
Privnote is a product of its own makers; this comparison describes its widely documented burn-after-reading behaviour and is not affiliated with or endorsed by them.
When to use which
Stick with a burn-after-reading note
You are handing over a single string — a Wi-Fi password, a door code, a link — and you do not expect a reply.
Use Frendko instead
You need to actually talk it through: a quick sensitive question, a one-off exchange with a stranger, coordinating something you would rather not leave in a thread.
Deletion you can see
Most disappearing tools ask you to take their word for it. When a Frendko room ends, the messages and the room row are hard-deleted, the server reads back to confirm the rows are gone, and both people see a receipt with the number of messages deleted and a verified timestamp. The mechanics are written up on the security and privacy page and in what self-destructing messages actually delete.
Frequently asked
- What is a good Privnote alternative for a real conversation?
- Privnote is built for a single one-way note that burns after reading. If you need a back-and-forth conversation that still disappears, Frendko gives you a two-person chat room with a 10-minute timer and a verified server-side purge when it ends.
- How is Frendko different from Privnote?
- Privnote destroys one note when it is opened. Frendko destroys an entire conversation when the room ends — by timer or by either person pressing End chat — and shows a receipt with the number of messages deleted and a verified timestamp.
- Is Frendko free like Privnote?
- Yes. Creating a room, chatting for 10 minutes and the one free 10-minute extension cost nothing, and there is no account to create.
- Can more than one person open a Frendko room?
- No. A room has exactly two seats. Once the guest seat is claimed the code is dead, and three wrong code guesses from the same source trigger a 30-minute lockout.
- Is Frendko end-to-end encrypted?
- No, and neither claim should be assumed. Traffic is protected in transit by HTTPS and messages exist on the server only until the room is purged. For cryptographic end-to-end guarantees, use a messenger built specifically for that.
No account, no install. Create a room and send the 6-digit code.
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